How one dresses for homeschool is a decisions you will have to make.
One of the perks of homeschooling is the ability to stay in pajamas all day long. And my kids and I have taken advantage of that perk on more occasions than I can count. It's just easier to stay in those comfy pj's, right?
But what I've finally come to grips with is that for our family, wearing pajamas while we homeschool just doesn't work. Sure, it's easy to be lazy and not bother changing. But I've noticed that when we do stay in our pj's all day long, we don't accomplish things as quickly as when we're dressed in our street clothes.
Now I don't entirely understand the psychology of it, and I haven't conducted any scientific experiments related to pj-wearing homeschooling vs. non-pj-wearing homeschooling, but I'm convinced that staying in our pj's does not do us any good. So from now on I'm just going to have to be less lazy and force myself and my kids to get fully dressed before we start our homeschool day. I know we'll be glad we did.
How about you? Are you pj-homeschoolers or non-pj-homeschoolers. And why?
I agree with you. I have to get up and dressed in the morning and I make the kids also. We get so much more done.
Rhen @yestheyareallmine says
We used to have pajama day once a week. We were still able to get as much accomplished, but now my schedule is too active. We have to get dressed! 🙂
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It kind of depends on our day. Most days we do get dressed but it may not be something we would wear out in public. Like I hate-loath-despise bras but it is indecent for me to not wear one in public. I also won't wear yoga pants in public but they are comfy for around the house – but that could count as pajama wear.
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If it's a day that I know we don't have to be anywhere we stay in our jammies. We are just as productive in jammies as we are in street clothes. My kids still want to do their projects and whatever we have planned for that day.
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We need to get dressed for a variety of reasons-unexpected company, or if something comes up, we can be ready to roll that much more quickly. Also, we have different 'levels' of day wear, ie, clothes we wear messing around the house, and 'town' clothes, clothes that fit well, aren't stained or ripped and have appropriate logos (if any). With 3 boys and a toddler, it just saves my sanity.
I was homeschooled K – 12th grade, and no, we couldn't wear PJs. We had to be dressed, beds made, dishwasher emptied & put away before breakfast. We also had to go outside: feed, water, brush, and clean up the yard (after the dog) before breakfast, which was between 7 – 7:30, so obviously we wouldn't be outside in our PJs at 6:45 AM.
I never really imagined it any other way! I remember as a child, thinking it was weird when my friends said 'i wish I were homeschooled! Then I could sleep in and wear PJs all day!' That was never my experience. 🙂 But I'm thankful looking back.
Now that you mention it (relating to homeschooling) I can see what a difference it would make!
Now as a pregnant SAHM of a 2yo and 1yo, those mornings when I don't shower & dress first thing, I feel like my day is all wrong, right from the start!
Definitely not as productive for me–but I know everyone is different.
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I loved hearing from Becky…so true. I don't necessarily believe it has to do with PJ's… as it does a morning routine. If our morning dosn't start right…we drag all day long. We do own "comfy" clothes for off days.
This is only my first year of homeschooling, but I am definitely against doing it in PJ's so far. I get up and get completely ready, as if I were taking them to school. They have to be dressed and ready, too. We have a start time and an end time, as well. Works for us!
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No PJ's here. Everyone – including me – has to be dressed and ready for the day by 8am.
We have a specific time to be at the table, ready for school. The girls need to have teeth brushed & dirty laundry down. I don't particularly care about the pj's. I'm usually in them until silent reading time. Then I shower while they read.
I leave it up to them. But if I see a decline in work when pjs are on, I would absolutely have them get dressed in street clothes before starting. Right now it's probably 2 out of 5 days that they leave their pjs on.
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Cheryl B. says
I stopped by your blog to verify that you were still hosting your Thursday "theme day".
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and then read this one:
I see that you still are, so I shall leave you on the lists 😀
For what it's worth – have you visited a local high school lately? "pajama pants" are every-where!!
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I like to be dressed before we start our "school" day. But sometimes my daughter jumps right into her schoolwork before she even brushes her teeth, and before I know it, it's 11o'clock and we're both still in pj's with bedhead. All that to say, sometimes we ARE effective doing schoolwork in jammies.
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Annie Kate says
We usually get dressed immediately. At least the kids do. Lately I've been showering after breakfast, and that works OK, but not as well.
We don't do pj's either. I feel like part of my job is to prepare my kids for the world. If they are in the habit of getting dressed before school, then that is one less thing they will have to change when they are old enough to get a job.
I bet, though, that my kids will be the ones working from home! LOL
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Absolutely agree with you. We may eat breakfast in jammies, but school must be done DRESSED. That makes it even more special when we stay in PJs until 2 PM on a Saturday. 🙂
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Hahaha, feeling like the rebel here after reading all the responses above. But no, we don't get dressed before tackling any school work..unless we want to or have to be some place before "schooling". Why should we? Isn't that just like being in public school which is NOT what I am wanting for my kiddos. They know they must be dressed to go someplace outside the home (ie. jobs, etc), but to us homeschooling is just as much about relaxing as it is about learning and relaxing is something that can only happen at home. A very big reason that my kids are NOT in public school. IMHO
I like Wilda's comment. I'm a veteran homeschooler. I was homeschooled in high school and my parents made me get dressed before starting school. I was 15 at the time, and VERY into makeup. So it would take me 30 minutes to put all that on. (I know I wasn't really going to see anyone until after lunch, but I still applied it.) I lived at the Bill Rice Ranch and never knew who may come around or who I may see during the day.
I sometimes wish they would have just let me hang out comfortable. I may have done better.
Now days, I like the house cleaned up and my face washed with clean clothes on. I don't shower until afternoon because of outside work still to be done.
Everyone is different. Homes are different. Mothers are different. Do what works for your family.
Amanda @ Better is Little says
Great post Joy! 100% agreement. P.S. love the "new" look. 🙂
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Kelly W says
we usually don't wear pjs when we homeschool beause of the same reasons you stated. We end of having a more laid back day and don't get as much done. What we do is every once and awhile (a day when there is not much to do) we will have a pj day. It makes pj days more special.
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Every Monday is "PJ Day" in our home. If the kids wish, they can stay in their pj's all day long. It started when my kids were very young and for whatever reason loved their pj's. They asked every day if they could wear their pj's. Rather than answering the question over and over, we created their own special pj day and it's gone on ever since. It works since we don't usually have appointments or company, being that it's the first day of our week. Any other day, and it's "up and at 'em" with our regular clothes on.
I like to get dressed and be ready for the day. I would not like seeing my kids in pj's all day. I do think it would influence your mindset and mood.
However, I do allow them to do it sometimes in the winter, when it is cold and snowy out. We snuggle in blankets and read with hot chocolate and such.
Rachel R says
We get dressed every day. It's just part of the routine. And if we don't do the routine, then the day just never seems to work right. We don't always pull off a perfect morning or a perfect day (rarely) .. but I try to focus on having a Productive Day. I found a lot of help for my highly distracted oldest daughter through Flylady and the Maxwells.
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We get more done in our pjs! No feeling to run errands, and to get dressed-you have to finish your work first…it seems to work for us 🙂 We get started faster and finish quicker
Nedra Tillman says
We have 5 children & have been homeschooling for 6 yrs. We didn't use to get dressed either, but I found out the same thing, we seemed to drag all day if we didn't! Now we all have to be dressed, teeth brushed, hair combed, & chores (beds made, rooms straightened, animals fed) done before we start. We usually don't start until around 10:30 a.m. but it works out great for us. We do not set our alarm in the morning, either, usually we are up between 8:30 or 9:00, but I feel that is one of the many blessings of homeschooling…..we can sleep in!! lol
We are ALL pjs ALL day and it hasn't determined our goals at all. I homeschool two kiddos ages 2 and 11 and run a successful business from home. My 11 yr old has 8 subjects and stays busy all day. We are flexible when we need to be but very productive. If clothes change your mindset….I don't know, seems like external becomes more important than internal drive?